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fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder: i apologize to my future SOs because no romantic gesture i ever do will live up to the time i asked my friend to prom BITCH SAID MAYBE

fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder:

i apologize to my future SOs because no romantic gesture i ever do will live up to the time i asked my friend to prom

BITCH SAID MAYBE
» posted 2 months ago with 6 notes − © fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder

fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder: tomorrow is my day to bring snacks for musical and i made cookies with two of my friends and there’s a big suprise waiting for either our director or the rest of our friends i am just so proud of this penis

fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder:

tomorrow is my day to bring snacks for musical and i made cookies with two of my friends and there’s a big suprise waiting for either our director or the rest of our friends

i am just so proud of this penis
» posted 3 months ago with 3 notes − © fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder

fenwayhealth:

The transgender community faces a number of health disparities stemming from discrimination.

(via artoftransliness)

» posted 6 months ago with 2,219 notes − © fenwayhealth

tagged as: #trans*

hairelastics:

if you go to condomusa.com you can get free condoms

this has been a psa don’t be silly wrap your willy

(via fuckyeahsexeducation)

» posted 6 months ago with 44,928 notes − © sekichiku-deactivated20121111

tagged as: #condoms #penises #free stuff

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Learning to have sex from watching porn is about as effective as learning to drive from watching car chase movies. And unfortunately, that’s what our sex education system forces people to do. Rather than helping people learn how to make authentic sexual choices, communicate with a partner, set boundaries or identify their needs, desires, and goals, we withhold information and then shame them for making mistakes. Is it any wonder that people are trying to learn how to have sex from porn?


Porn isn’t any more of a fantasy than a romantic comedy or an action movie is. But until we give people more accurate ideas about sex, there’s no way to balance it out. And to critique porn for doing something that every other genre of entertainment does seems a bit silly to me. After all, there’s no reason to have higher expectations for porn than we do for action movies.

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- Porn Expectations | Charlie Glickman  (via becauseiamawoman)

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» posted 7 months ago with 4,044 notes − © becauseiamawoman

tagged as: #porn #pornography

em-pulse:

i’m really into sex education and sex positivity

but i’ve run out of ways to keep myself involved 

blogging turns into passive reblogs and “i’ve read this before”

maybe videos?

i want to volunteer with PP but i dunno if i could just do it on the weekend?

my coursera class on contraception doesn’t start until January

we really need a solid community

» posted 8 months ago with 14 notes − © fuckmegentlywithawinonaryder

tagged as: #reblog from personal

moremaggiemayhem:

Disability and Sexuality Resources

mslorelei:

Really useful. Share and use!

takebacksexuality:

I have been doing some research on sex and disability, and thought I would share some of the links I have found. This will be useful for me in the future as a resource, and hopefully to others too.


Disability and Sex General Links

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» posted 8 months ago with 4,066 notes − © takebacksexuality

tagged as: #resources #disability #disabled #disability and sexuality

OOH BOY LET’S TALK ABOUT SOMETHING SEX BLOGGERS

Sometimes I feel like sex bloggers talk more about language than they do sex?

For example, someone might say vagina instead of vulva in a question and, instead of answering their original question, oftentimes the question-asker gets a lesson in anatomy or language, or has their question answered as if they meant the actual vagina instead of the vulva.

It’s perfectly fine (!!!!) to correct people. That’s just education and, trust me, I love it. But if you also ignore the original question then you’re not helping them with their problem.

Obviously this isn’t something that applies to everyone but I do see it sometimes and it does bother me.

» posted 8 months ago with 1 note

Sex toys for the underage or those without money 

fuckyeahsexpositivity:

fuckyeahsexeducation:

Sex toys are great. They can give another dimension to sex or masturbation, can make orgasms better, can make it easier to orgasm, or they can simply increase your or a partner’s pleasure. But what about all the people who can’t get ahold of sex toys either because they’re underage or they don’t have a lot of money to spend or for other reasons? Luckily there are still options.

Getting Sex Toys Online

Even if you’re underage if you have an income and either have a bank account or pay pal or get a pre-paid credit card you can buy sex toys online. Most sex toy sites deliver in inconspicuous boxes. You can look on the website’s information and usually they will tell you they deliver inconspicuously and they usually have a different company name that also does not indicate that it sells sex toys that will appear on any bank statements. If you’re still scared your parents will open your package, try getting a P.O. box.

If money is an issue, check and see if one of these websites has an ambassador program. If you have a website (even a tumblr) you may be eligible to do product reviews, post banners, or do blog posts in exchange for free toys or store credit.

Buying in store

If you do have the money, you can always try buying a sex toy. The main problem is that a lot of sex toy stores card at the door, but sometimes they don’t. You may get lucky. Also, there are a lot of gag shops like Spencers, some card and some don’t. The main problem is anything with a tag that says “novelty use only” isn’t good quality. That’s how they get away with it because it’s not technically supposed to be used. Use a condom or barrier method with these. There are also more products being sold in grocery stores or pharmacies that won’t card. Trojan sells small finger vibes for really cheap and because they’re Trojan and found everywhere you won’t be carded. Just see what is around in your area and what you can get away with.

Making your own sex toys

Really, anything phallic can be used for vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. Just make sure that it’s not porous or coming apart, splintering, or have any holes in it and cover it with either a condom or non-microwavable saran wrap. Wash it before and after use. Common ones involve makeup brush handles (it’s a good idea to cut off the bristles first), candles (although just a warning they are likely to bend or warp inside of you as your vagina can be pretty warm and make the wax more pliable… I’ve had to explain away some warped candles in my day), hairbrush handle, or old toys. DON’T insert anything into your anus that doesn’t have a flared base. The anus sucks things in and unlike the vagina it doesn’t have a wall that will keep whatever you insert from being lost. You will probably end up on the long list of people who need to go to the ER to remove objects from their anus. Trust me it’s a long list. So althogh these things are great for vaginal penetration some should not be used for anal. Also, if you like to get crafty you can make your own silicone dildo. Since you can make your own mold, you can make it an anal dildo and give it a flared base.

Anything that vibrates works well for clitoral. This includes massagers, electric toothbrushes (not the end with the bristles), and most infamously the Neutrogena Wave. Just make sure that you have a barrier method and keep it clean. Also, you can sit on the dryer to get good vibrations. You can also use the shower head or faucet directed at your clitoris. Just make sure it doesn’t get in your vagina as this can cause infection.

For penile stimulation you can make your own fleshlight. There are tons of ways to do this with a lot of different kinds of house hold objects used. Basically you find a cylinder, find some soft product like a towel or sponges or other kind of foam and something slick like surgical gloves to keep the soft product clean. Some people also do this with bubble wrap. You can also just cut out foam rubber and use a condom. Here is a more complicated tutorial though you can look up more of the simpler ones. Here’s also one for trans guys.

If you want something for sensation play, you can use a comb or anything with bristles, a spatula or anything flat that could be used for spanking, tassles, an ice cube wrapped in a glove (although be careful and if it hurts stop), silk cloth, clothes pins or other clamps, or candle wax. Just remember to come up with a safe word and to be careful. Since these things weren’t necessarily designed with sex in mind they can be more dangerous than sex products. Be sure to do your research. If bondage is more your thing it’s best to not use silk as they can get really tight and difficult to manage. Only use if you can get to scissors to cut them. It’s best to use something made of cotton. It is a good idea to use this with a partner you trust so they can help you get loose if you need to. Here are some basic guides to how to make strap on harnesses. Here is a good website for DIY BDSM equipment.

Don’t be afraid to get creative with your home made sex toy! Just make sure that it’s a size you can handle, that there’s no sharp bits, and that you can easily keep it clean and keep it covered when you use it. There are a lot of books and websites on DIY sex toys, so do some research!

Important for my underage followers.

—BB

Wow this is A+

I’m just going to reiterate once more, though: Cover things with condoms, dental damns, gloves, or non microwavable saran wrap as much as possible. Stop if anything hurts in a way it wasn’t intended to.

» posted 8 months ago with 186 notes − © fuckyeahsexeducation

tagged as: #sex toys #underage #cheap sex toys #cheap

Clinics and Hotlines 

sexualiteen:

Clinics-

(US) Planned Parent locator

(UK) Locator

Hotlines-

Depression:

1-630-482-9696

Suicide:

1-800-784-8433

LifeLine:

1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: (lgbt)

1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support:

1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders:

1-847-831-3438

Rape and Sexual Assault:

1-800-656-4673

Grief Support:

1-650-321-5272

Runaway:

1-800-621-4000

After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice:

1-866-4394253

National Domestic Violence Hotline:

1-800-799-7233

1-800-787-3224 (toll free)

Missing and exploited children:

1-800-843-5678

California youth crisis line:

1-800-843-5200

National Sexual Assault Online Hotline

[here]

IMAlive: Online Crisis Network (suicide resource for those who can’t talk on the phone)

[here

International sexual assault, suicide, and domestic violence hotlines

[here]

*all of these are US unless otherwise stated

» posted 8 months ago with 152 notes − © sexualiteen